So it’s been a while since I’ve had internet access. The party I said that we were planning went pretty well I think. During the party, it seemed like people were having fun, and afterward people told us they thought it went well. It didn’t go quite as planned, but it still seemed fun. We split into four groups and played different games. The two games that my group played were human knot and capture the flag. We had it planned that each group would play four games but we ran out of time. Human knot was kind of a short game, so afterwards we played a name game and some of the students showed Rachel and me a few Tibetan dance steps, which was really fun. Capture the flag went well too. After that all the groups got back together. There was a competition in which all the girls in our group (minus Amalia and I, because Amalia was already wearing a chuba, and neither my roommate nor I wanted to actually have to get up in front of everyone) were dressed up in chubas (traditional Tibetan dresses) by their roommates. After this there was a talent show, which actually only consisted of Amalia playing a Tibetan song on mandolin, Julia and I singing ‘Leaving on a Jet Plane,’ Eva and Diana singing the song from Titanic (which for some reason is still popular here), Taylor playing ‘Redemption Song’ on mandolin, and Julia, Justin, and Will playing air guitar (Justin actually played air drums I guess) to ‘Take Me Out.’ It went well, and I’m really proud of myself for actually singing in front of people. I know it doesn’t sound like much, but I really do have pretty bad stage fright, and actually before the song I got so nervous that I ran off the stage and only came back because I felt really bad about leaving Julia alone up there. After the talent show we played a game where everyone has a balloon tied to his or her ankle and the point is to pop other people’s balloons without having your own popped. I’m pretty sure that I was like the first person out, mostly because someone was talking to me about what game would be next when the game started, so I wasn’t actually paying attention, but I probably would have gotten out pretty quickly anyway, because a lot of people were taking the game really seriously. After that we played a game called fruit salad, which was silly and amusing because it involved people trying to make themselves look like various pieces of fruit. Anyway, it was quite amusing to watch. But it really did seem like the party went well, and now I feel like I know more of the students here, and some of them even stop to talk to me sometimes now so yay.
Earlier that day, we went to a lake and a bird preserve (I forgot the name though). We went out on boats first, and then we had lunch by the lake. After lunch we took turns riding bikes that were there. It was really fun, and I took a lot of pictures there.
Last weekend (I guess the party was the weekend before last), our group went on a trip to Bir. On the way we stopped at Mahadevi Temple. It was pretty cool to see some of the things I learned about in Love and Religion last semester. Also, while we were there, there were two funerals going on. We were leaving right as they were starting, but we did see them preparing and starting the fires for the funeral pyres. I’m told it’s auspicious to see a funeral, so I guess two is double the auspiciousness. As with all sorts of other things here, death is much more out in the open than it is at home. It seems like in the US death is kept in hospitals out of the way, and funerals are kept out of the way in funeral homes too, and bodies are preserved to look weirdly life-like. Here it’s not so sanitized. A lot of things feel that way here, just sort of less tidy and more out in the open.
We stayed at the guesthouse of the Sherabling monastery, which had hot showers (I think that alone may have made the trip worth it). We went to see Ani Tenzin Palmo. She’s a nun, who came from England originally, and she spent twelve years in retreat meditating in a cave in the mountains. She’s written a book, and I know there’s been a book written about her too, so she’s pretty well-known, and we were really lucky to be able to talk to her. She’s very direct in everything she says, and she says a lot of things that are pretty controversial. She’s also totally a feminist which is really cool. She’s starting a nunnery now, and when one of the students asked her about the idea that being born a woman is a result of lower karma, she said that she flat out disagreed. She said that maybe at one point in time it was, but now there are opportunities open to woman than there were before. She even said that she thought maybe it was better to be a woman because there are fewer distractions in the monastic life (interpret as you will). Amber recorded the whole interview and said that we can all see her tapes, so I’ll try to pick out the quotes that I really liked if I get a chance.
Then we went to Tashi Jong, a monastery nearby. While we were there, we were able to go into a room where the preserved body of an old yogi is preserved in salt. Some of the group meditated there, and I know a lot people said it was a good experience (I was as usual at the back of the group, so I didn’t really know what was going on until after but anyway). We also saw where they make incense.
The next day we walked to the Bir settlement. Along the way we walked through the Suja School, which is one of the TCV schools, and it’s the school that my roommate went to before she came here. That day we saw a Nyingma temple and later a Sakya temple too. Also, we had an audience with a Rinpoche who also happens to be a movie director. He directed the movie ‘The Cup,’ which now I think I need watch. When someone asked if it was true that he wanted to be reincarnated as a rockstar in his next life (rinpoches are Dharma teachers who can control their rebirths, I think), he said that now he actually wants to be reincarnated as the president of the US. He even specified that he wants to be a Republican president, because he said that he thinks that Republican presidents are dangerous. He also made some interesting metaphors about the Dharma that I wish I could remember now.
The day after that we spent at Sherabling. They were doing a puja (a purification ritual) before Losar (Tibetan new year, which is this weekend and seems like it’ll be lots of fun), and we got to sit in the back of the temple for that. It was the way one imagines Tibetan chanting. There was some sort of horn type instrument, huge drums, and of course the low pitch chanting of the monks. They took us to see some of the other rooms around the temple. It was really cool, but it had gotten really cold the day before, and it rained all day, so I was quite happy to just get back to the guesthouse, put on dry clothes, and read.
On the way back from Bir, we stopped at a Siva temple also, and now here we are back in the swing of things with classes and all.
On one more cool thing…Palkyi, one of the students here, is teaching Julia, (maybe) Lucy, and me to play the dranyen, which I’m sure I’ve spelled wrong. It’s a Tibetan instrument, which is played kind of like a guitar. We had our first lesson with her yesterday.
I noticed how much my expectations have changed but also ways they haven’t. Yesterday I was in a good mood mentally and emotionally, but it was so cold and I really wanted to shower and I could feel my physical mood bringing the rest of me down. But I did manage to shower today, so I feel much better. When it’s cold and cloudy out, there isn’t really any hot water (yesterday there wasn’t any at all). Today the rain let up and the sun came out for a little, and I managed to get a kind of lukewarm shower. I was willing to be half an hour late to class for it too, because it started raining again, and I was afraid that by the time I got out of class the hot water would be totally gone. I was just so desperate to shower though, so it felt totally worth it, and now I feel much cleaner. So that’s where I am now, and I suppose I should stop writing this entry, since I won’t be able to post it until tomorrow at the earliest, and I do have other work I should be doing. I also have another batch of pictures that I plan to post too, so hopefully I’ll be able to get on the internet soon.